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deadverysoon

so f****ing ready
Aug 19, 2021
216
just came to my mind today.

i have organized everything - have written thousands of letters and personal messages, videos, photos etc.

even created an automatic response after a while to find my dead body etc.

but i forgot to chose someone to arrange my affairs after my death.

i have planned everything for my funeral and created a will etc. but i still dont know who is the right person for this.

should i chose someone i hate or someone i love?

because things will maybe get tricky in my case. (death in another country)

any ideas for this?
 
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Alwaysbadtime

Enlightened
Jun 28, 2021
1,158
I don't know. May I ask what automatied response you are using for them to find you?

I would chose someone who luvs you...to take care of your shit.
 
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deadverysoon

so f****ing ready
Aug 19, 2021
216
I don't know. May I ask what automatied response you are using for them to find you?

I would chose someone who luvs you...to take care of your shit.
its an automatic email to several institutions - and i will post something on xing (facebook for business) just when i have my last minutes and its sure thay i will ctb.

maybe i also will make an automized call to the police with a record - because its maybe better than the email version.

i think i will then chose someone who is important to me. thanks for your opinion.
 
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Alwaysbadtime

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Jun 28, 2021
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its an automatic email to several institutions - and i will post something on xing (facebook for business) just when i have my last minutes and its sure thay i will ctb.

maybe i also will make an automized call to the police with a record - because its maybe better than the email version.

i think i will then chose someone who is important to me. thanks for your opinion.
Can you please relay the service name?

Sure, take care and good luck.
 
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deadverysoon

so f****ing ready
Aug 19, 2021
216
Can you please relay the service name?

Sure, take care and good luck.
its not an official service - i wrote a small script which seems to work well for my setup with my ctb-phone

but maybe i can find a service for this. what do you prefer? delayed email or delayed sms?
 
Alwaysbadtime

Alwaysbadtime

Enlightened
Jun 28, 2021
1,158
its not an official service - i wrote a small script which seems to work well for my setup with my ctb-phone

but maybe i can find a service for this. what do you prefer? delayed email or delayed sms?
Delayed email. I found a delayed text and it didn't work...so I am hesitant to trust email services...but I really would like to use one...Thanks for looking.

Sorry to shit on your post with my questions.
 
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juraviel

PL
Aug 11, 2021
414
doesn't matter if you like em or hate em just somebody you can trust to honor your wishes in regards to what happens with u and your possessions when you pass.
 

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