Many women I dated had borderline.
The chemistry master student dated me while being in a relationship. She did emotional cheating which was a red flag for me. She once called me an adventure. Later I found out she had contact to 4 men while being in a relationship. This sort of shocked me. Or the way she talked about her bf and their relationship. It sounded like it does not mean anything to her. I recommended to her to stay loyal to her bf. And that I am a person who values loyalty. I told her that when I rejeted her. But for her everything was a game. Later she told me I helped her so much with my advices. I am not sure whether she is now loyal though.
I had close contact to a woman from a dating app who as it turned out also had borderline. The time we had was amazing (the beginning). The first month was sort of one of the best times in my whole life. But after our meeting she changed a lot. She behaved really weird, lied to me, did gaslighiting with me, insulted me and claimed these were jokes. The contact got less and less. I asked her whether I did something wrong or whether she had contact to someone else and she always denied that. She sort of ghosted me more and more. At our date I saw her dating app was opened in a tab. I wonder whether she swipped in the night of our first date. I wonder whether she had contact with a different man during the 1,5 months she more and more ghosted me. I realized a lot afterwards. When we dated she told me she did a lot of fucked up things which I could never imagine. I had no clue what she refered to. There were no hints. Retrospectively I think she refered to the things she did to men. Moreover, she depicted me as a bad person while she did all of that to me. I am not that mad at her though. Maybe because I will never know the full truth. But it is her illness. I could only experience this extreme amazing one month with her because this was also part of her illness. And I am thankful I had this great time with her.
In school my best friends became my biggest bullies. Later I found real friends though.
What is your story?
The chemistry master student dated me while being in a relationship. She did emotional cheating which was a red flag for me. She once called me an adventure. Later I found out she had contact to 4 men while being in a relationship. This sort of shocked me. Or the way she talked about her bf and their relationship. It sounded like it does not mean anything to her. I recommended to her to stay loyal to her bf. And that I am a person who values loyalty. I told her that when I rejeted her. But for her everything was a game. Later she told me I helped her so much with my advices. I am not sure whether she is now loyal though.
I had close contact to a woman from a dating app who as it turned out also had borderline. The time we had was amazing (the beginning). The first month was sort of one of the best times in my whole life. But after our meeting she changed a lot. She behaved really weird, lied to me, did gaslighiting with me, insulted me and claimed these were jokes. The contact got less and less. I asked her whether I did something wrong or whether she had contact to someone else and she always denied that. She sort of ghosted me more and more. At our date I saw her dating app was opened in a tab. I wonder whether she swipped in the night of our first date. I wonder whether she had contact with a different man during the 1,5 months she more and more ghosted me. I realized a lot afterwards. When we dated she told me she did a lot of fucked up things which I could never imagine. I had no clue what she refered to. There were no hints. Retrospectively I think she refered to the things she did to men. Moreover, she depicted me as a bad person while she did all of that to me. I am not that mad at her though. Maybe because I will never know the full truth. But it is her illness. I could only experience this extreme amazing one month with her because this was also part of her illness. And I am thankful I had this great time with her.
In school my best friends became my biggest bullies. Later I found real friends though.
What is your story?
