Discussion What do you need to become happy again?

[JadedBeing]

I think no matter what happens i'm fucked for life because my parents did a really bad job and should never have made me. The bullying in school and then later at work Made me hate people and not able to trust anyone.

I guess i would be content if i did find a group of friends or atleast one good friend. If i have to work a job i'll always be miserable so if i become a successfull youtuber or just rich so i can be able to travel All the time that would be nice. I also want to live close to nature in a town with a small population maybe like north Skandinavia. With alot of wildlife.

 

[yesi]

Real

 

[Quietist]

Money and independence.

 

[FoxSauce]

I wish I knew.

 

[darksouls]

I was never happy

 

[Forever Sleep]

I'm not sure it exists for me either. I actually worked really hard to get what I thought I'd be content with- having a freelance creative career. But, I just think there are negatives to everything.

I suppose, the same as you- to have money. To live somewhere surrounded by beautiful nature would be a dream but then- maybe I'd eventually get bored if there wasn't a need to work.

Sometimes, when I get lost in a really good video game for a few days- when I don't have work- I think- I could live like this. I could be a happy NEET. But then- could I really? Is it just the contrast? How many really good and absorbing games are there out there anyway? How long before I'd be bored again?

I suppose more balance would help. My job is very all or nothing. And, during the 'nothing' phases, I'm too stressed about not having work to really relax. So- I'm pretty much constantly worried on some level. It would be good to be free of that. I'm a little more mentally disciplined now. Although, it's probably that I don't care as much. I think life will always have that worry to it though. It just seems so much nicer to think about being free of it all! Death seems simpler.

 

[FuneralCry]

No, I'd never be happy with being burdened with this torturous, dreadful existence of unnecessary suffering where there is no limit as to how much agony one can feel, existence to me is the problem and is an abomination and I find it deeply undesirable to exist in every way possible, it's so unbearable to me how a human can be conscious in this existence for decades longer just to face the torture and agony of old age, for me only non-existence is positive, only in non-existence will I be at peace, I wish this existence was never imposed more than anything.

 

[martyrdom]

Nothing possible

 

[MissAbyss]

A healthy brain.

 

[OOUUneverover]

If the world became perfect. If there was no more suffering. Even still, I would kill myself. I am too evil to be allowed to continue living. It is over for me, and that's okay.

 

[Forveleth]

A time machine. I need to go back and purge certain people from my life that caused me to end up here. Unfortunately, there is us nothing real that can fix me.

 

[Andarna]

I have no idea. I don't think anything would change how I feel. Maybe being accepted for euthanasia. I think I would be 'happy' during the waiting period for the scheduled date.

 

[Timeless]

Love , having money also creates lurkers..
And a house and find a like minded beautiful woman with Freedom in as much ways as possible ️

 

[KenDuh]

To be honest, I don't know, I've tried things, but nothing never seems to be enough. I wish I knew.

 

[mjolnir]

If my mind were a healthier place to inhabit, I would already be happy. It's not as if I've never experienced happiness throughout my life, or as if my problems are bigger or smaller than anyone else's, but the pain still resides there and paralyzes me, preventing me from dealing with life.

 

[IDontKnowEverything]

A healthy brain and a healthy society.

 

[LakeMungoGirl]

I think no matter what happens i'm fucked for life because my parents did a really bad job and should never have made me. The bullying in school and then later at work Made me hate people and not able to trust anyone.

I guess i would be content if i did find a group of friends or atleast one good friend. If i have to work a job i'll always be miserable so if i become a successfull youtuber or just rich so i can be able to travel All the time that would be nice. I also want to live close to nature in a town with a small population maybe like north Skandinavia. With alot of wildlife.

Only a cure for my tinnitus would make me happy, but it's incredibly unlikely I'll live to see one since fucking nobody takes my condition seriously. The last doctor I went to even insisted it's all "in my head". This world sucks. I hate it here.

 

[pthnrdnojvsc]

If u believe Life is generally good but it's only that you have Been unlucky then u might contemplate this question

to me life and this world are bad in general. Why would someone want to consciously want to be part of something bad something evil?

I don't think life and this world can be good if only magically certain things were changed as at any moment other very horrible things can trap any human

would never want anything from evil life and this evil world

I would never want to continue to be a slave, as a bag of cells in this hell

But even if the impossible happens and things magically change which they won't. under no circumstances would I want to live or exist

I only want to escape this hell asap. But another thing that gives a clue to how evil this world is they made every guaranteed painless suicide method into crimes like Nembutal or hiring someone to shoot me in the head 3 times no one is surviving that

 

[ctwc]

It's hard to talk about it when you know very well what you need to be happier, but for a myriad of reasons, don't know how or can't get it

Talking about it only makes things harder. The only benefit is perhaps knowing people have it just as bad

 

[Custos]

Ultra powerful AI and simulations, where I can take the blue pill in my perfect world.

 

[madameviolette]

Health. I want my life back.

 

[meiherasoru_]

idk

 

[X-sanguinate86]

To be truly happy I'd probably not only have to go back in time and change certain parts of my life story but also just parts of who and what I am. There are some concrete goals I could aspire to that, if they were achieved, would make me significantly happier but how can you be fully happy when you have been a failed, humiliated beta with no real character or personality? Is there really any way of erasing that kind of shitstain from your essence? Probably not so, as someone else said, death is just more simple.

 

[AngelTear]

The main things that could possibly make me happy or even "fix me"

• Find a new family to adopt me and give me everything I missed out on as a child and love me and take care of me
• Find friends who actually take me out and do all sorts of shit with me not just playing video games
• Move far away from my bio family
• Find a well paying job and make lots of money
• Buy a house
• Live alone until I decide its time to die peacefully

 

[X-sanguinate86]

The main things that could possibly make me happy or even "fix me"

• Find a new family to adopt me and give me everything I missed out on as a child and love me and take care of me
• Find friends who actually take me out and do all sorts of shit with me not just playing video games
• Move far away from my bio family
• Find a well paying job and make lots of money
• Buy a house
• Live alone until I decide its time to die peacefully

This plus a life partner relationship of reciprocal love would do me just fine as well.

 

[Macedonian1987]

Health. I want my life back.

Same here. I need my health back and not to be so diferent from most of humanity due to my asperger's. All my life i have been avoided by all.

 

[cemeteryismyhome]

For me, that's like asking "what would it take to divide by zero"

 

[Forg]

A friend