What do i do

[Maya]

my dads been in the hospital for days the docs think kidney and renal failure are coming i dont know how to respond to this? Im terrified and twistedly at the same do not really care at all

 

[worldexploder]

I'm sorry to here that. Is there a possibility that he will recover? I don't think it's twisted "not to care" even though you do. Sometimes you got to shut those emotions off so you can deal with this.

 

[DeathBecomesMe]

my dads been in the hospital for days the docs think kidney and renal failure are coming i dont know how to respond to this? Im terrified and twistedly at the same do not really care at all

How old is your dad?

Why do you think it is that you twistedly don't care? Are you in general just apathetic or do you feel that he isn't deserving of your empathy?

 

[Gainax]

Been through the same with my dad, when his kidneys were gone he needed dialysis for the rest of his life, 3x a week, in the final stages of his life he endured hell.

Having been used to see my father as a strong man, it broken my heart watching his decline, losing his strength, mental deterioration with parkinson, dementia and alzheimer's, giving him bath, shaving his beard, helping go to the bathroom...when he finally died in his sleep, i was sad but at the same time happy for him, is hell was finally over.

what do you do? help in anyway he needs

 

[blurr21]

my dads been in the hospital for days the docs think kidney and renal failure are coming i dont know how to respond to this? Im terrified and twistedly at the same do not really care at all

Sorry to hear that maya hope you have a good support system around you to get through this..