what are your after-death wishes?

[boxofdollpartz]

for me, there's a few little things that are important to me.

i have to be cremated; my ashes buried in a cemetery - and id like my comfort item, a plush polar bear, to be buried in a box with me.

id like my snowglobe collection to be split among my loved ones - in specific, leaving my disney cinderella one for my mom, as she bought it for me when i was 3 and it begun the collection, it is one of my last remaining childhood belongings.

i dont want a traditional funeral. i dont have any religious views so i dont want it in a church. id like everyone at the service to wear yellow, even if thats a little bit selfish to wish for. its my favorite color.

what are the little details like that that you daydream about?

 

[deep-sleeper]

I wish to be thrown in a ditch

And give all my stuff to my best friend

 

[girlsboysthems]

i wanted my body to be donated to science so you dont need to have a burial, but sadly people are poor and they all already signed up for it and now there are too many cadavers. so no funeral for me scatter ashes and go. money to my best friend and thats all.

 

[westerly_merlin]

Cremate my body and scatter my ashes in the estuary where I used to sail. No grave or memorial, just the sound of the wind, waves and gulls.

 

[FuneralCry]

For me I just want to be forgotten about like I never suffered at all, if it's up to me I'd choose to permanently erase this existence as I just never should had been burdened with this torturous, futile existence at all, existence to me always feels like a mistake and all I want is peace from the abomination of existence, I just want for all to be gone, I just hope and wish to never suffer again.

 

[Lost_In_A_Nightmare]

I want to be eaten by wild animals, because it makes me feel useful and kind of special, like I'm actually doing something worthwhile.

 

[boxofdollpartz]

For me I just want to be forgotten about like I never suffered at all, if it's up to me I'd choose to permanently erase this existence as I just never should had been burdened with this torturous, futile existence at all, existence to me always feels like a mistake and all I want is peace from the abomination of existence, I just want for all to be gone, I just hope and wish to never suffer again.

i was writing about this last night while thinking of the subject for this question. i feel very similarly. the things i mentioned in this post are only because of the several deaths within my family this year, specifically in planning my dads funeral service right now. we're trying to figure out how to honor him, so i was wondering how id be honored when i go.

it reminds me of how my mother told me this year that if i kill myself, that she'd also do it.

in the ultimate fairytale reality, when i kill myself, the entirety of my digital footprint dating back to 2005 when i first started using it, all my belongings, my body, my spot in anybody's memories, all of my writing and art, would immediately vanish with it. my mother would be assigned another kid and in her memory id have never been her child at all, just to spare her that.

 

[pthnrdnojvsc]

I don't care what happens because i will cease to exist forever 1 micro second after my brain dies. nothing will matter Afer Death because i won't exist ever again.

the only reason i can worry , or anything could matter , any concern can happen to me is because i'm alive and my brain is still working and conscious.

 

[MeSauce]

In the wise words of Danny DeVito...

 

[hippiedeath]

I'll tell what I don't want.

I don't want people to feel bad about it. I want to be remembered in a positive light. I do not want people to suffer in the world. I don't want people to get the wrong idea.

I do want my body to be treated respectfully and buried.

 

[tapetum_lucidum]

I think I want to be cremated and have my ashes distributed amongst my loved ones. I want to stay here long enough to see my cat pass but I don't know if I'm strong enough for that, so I'd want her to be taken care of if she's still alive. I'd want some of my belongings to go to friends and the rest be kept in a storage locker somewhere. I'm attached to my stuff even in death. I want people to be happy my suffering is finally over.

 

[auniqueusername!]

I really would love for everybody to just forget about me. I wish I could do a method where my body couldn't be found.

 

[fallingbehind]

No funeral, no news reports, no morons posting me pretending to give a shit and throw all my things away.

Hopefully my immediate family arent too affected, but its not as if im leaving them with any positive memories. Except for my mother though, she a bible thumper that once made fun of a neighbour who killed himself, calling him weak. I hope that all her Christian friends scorn her for birthing a "weak, cowardly child thats burning in hell for the sin of suicide", just like she scorned that kid. That would be enough karmaic justice for me.

 

[kopebaldy]

For my body to never be found.

But it's impossible with my circumstance so maybe for people to quickly forget about me I guess.

 

[amerie]

- I'd also like to be cremated and I'd like my ashes scattered in specific places

- I'd like to write a memoir and give life advice to other losers like me going through a hard time

- I'd want someone to inherit my fortunes and properties

 

[Cauliflour]

I hope people don't go all sob and start crying at my funeral. That'll be embarrassing.

 

[Irisse]

I want to be cremated and I don't want an obituary or celebration of life or anything like that. Ideally I'd erase myself from existence completely so that my family doesn't have to suffer.

 

[Tord]

Factory reset all of the hardware stuff in my room if anyone wants that. If you don't mind that half of my belongings smell like cigarettes you can have those too, I'll be kind of too dead to care anyway.


I don't care about anything else enough.

 

[UglyLife82]

Cremation, sprinkled somewhere nice. No particular place means very much to me, so maybe just somewhere with a nice view

 

[Galam]

My after-death wish is to be not found, nobody should touch my body especially not men because many of them are necrophiles and create pictures of corpses. Pickmes are also very dirty 'humans'

My ideal version is I want to just be a rotting corpse in the woods (I take a nap and die). The animals and plants, mushrooms eat me or use me as home, so my body finds a home in the forest. Maybe in Iceland while the polar lights flow above. I wish I could have a suicide partner too who is beside me.

I think it isn't realistic sadly, it is more common that I just are killed or maybe I get my cardiac arrest in my room alone. And then they put my stinky corpse where all the others are and burn it. But it could also be that they traffic my healthy organs before they burn me (I don't want this but such people don't care). What Assholes.

 

[Lullaby]

I don't plan on doing anything until my cat is gone, and the only thing I know for sure I'll leave in a note to ask is to be buried with his ashes, or at least mixed with them if I get cremated.

To be honest, I don't care about anything else for the most part, but I'm dead serious about wanting this to happen. If there's a small chance of an afterlife or something good after this, I just want to make sure I'm with him.