Went to 2 bars today and 1 college party

[LifeIsASadist]

I got kicked out of the bar when I was literally just dancing on the dance floor (fucking stopid) and I just accepted it because i didnt want to start drama

I went to a college party and it sucked terribly I left but the peoplel blocked my way.

I then went to anotjer bar but only had a beer and was done for the night ebcause I gave up on socializing. When autism is so nrutal even socializing drunk is hard.

 

[bankai]

God I hate bouncers. You were smart to leave though. Lot of people start fights and it doesn't end well. Have you seen drunk people try to throw a punch? It's not pretty.

 

[amerie]

Fuck clubbing honestly. Fuck cliquey displays of wealth and privilege. They are losers at heart no matter how much social acumen they have.

 

[bankai]

Fuck clubbing honestly. Fuck cliquey displays of wealth and privilege. They are losers at heart no matter how much social acumen they have.

I had a friend who, I kid you not, would spend $1000 a night at clubs. He would just buy drinks for everyone. Even people he didn't know.

It all went on Dad's credit card.

 

[amerie]

I had a friend who, I kid you not, would spend $1000 a night at clubs. He would just buy drinks for everyone. Even people he didn't know.

It all went on Dad's credit card.

I was going to say that I'm too greedy to spend my money like this but I realized he's not even paying for it

 

[Pluto]

 

[claracatchingthebus]

I got kicked out of the bar when I was literally just dancing on the dance floor (fucking stopid) and I just accepted it because i didnt want to start drama

I went to a college party and it sucked terribly I left but the peoplel blocked my way.

I then went to anotjer bar but only had a beer and was done for the night ebcause I gave up on socializing. When autism is so nrutal even socializing drunk is hard.

i would consider that a successful night of trying to socialize

1) no arrests

2) not physically picked up and removed by bounders

3) no fights

being social is one of those things where sometimes it goes well and you connect with people and have fun, and sometimes you just do it because it's good to force yourself to be out there, even if it's not fun... you can't predict what will happen when you're social, whether it will be fun or sort of annoying, so if it ends up being annoying just be happy with yourself for getting out there

 

[LifeIsASadist]

God I hate bouncers. You were smart to leave though. Lot of people start fights and it doesn't end well. Have you seen drunk people try to throw a punch? It's not pretty.

It wasn't even a bouncer, it was literally a regular employee.

You have a good point, I train striking and I don't want things to get very ugly. (Not trying to sound egotistical)

i would consider that a successful night of trying to socialize

1) no arrests

2) not physically picked up and removed by bounders

3) no fights

being social is one of those things where sometimes it goes well and you connect with people and have fun, and sometimes you just do it because it's good to force yourself to be out there, even if it's not fun... you can't predict what will happen when you're social, whether it will be fun or sort of annoying, so if it ends up being annoying just be happy with yourself for getting out there

My brother has been blacklisted, redlisted and got put in drunk tanks from bars.

For lonely people (especially men) like on this forum, bars are essentially gambling for friends.