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FireFox

FireFox

Enlightened
Apr 8, 2020
1,883
If you reach out people dismiss you, judge you or go on a moral crusade about how "selfish" and "ungrateful" you are for being suicidal. If you get hospitalised people either guilt trip you or pity you for attempting suicide. God forbid a person successfully dies by suicide the same people who judged now are asking " why didn't they reach out to us, we loved them so much."

How are people supposed to get help when everyone is judging and wants to go moral crusade? Mentally ill can't win either way.
 
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DivineSpark

DivineSpark

Elementalist
Feb 9, 2025
831
It can be selfish or sefless. Depends on perspective and situation.
 
VoidButterfly

VoidButterfly

Flitterby
May 17, 2025
95
I've often thought it is is people say that who're often selfish. They can only see "you did a thing that made me feel bad, therefore you must be at fault" without ever considering that maybe the person held out as long as they could for other people as selflessly as possible and couldn't take that pain anymore. The idea that someone should have to suffer forever so you don't have to feel bad is selfish. Calling them selfish for not taking pain for you forever is just the cherry on top.
 
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SilentSadness

SilentSadness

Sleepy.
Feb 28, 2023
1,408
That's not the devil sadly, that's just human nature and the fact that most people are completely selfish and cruel to others. They are completely hypocritical and this is why the human race is the worst species.
 
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22yearsbroken

22yearsbroken

Lost in the dark... with no sign of light
Feb 15, 2025
366
I think thats wrong ...it should say the greastest trick that any support worker, doctor, shrink, hotline, nurse.. or a so called friend ever pulled was telling you that suicide is a selfish thing to do...
 
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LetMeOut67

LetMeOut67

Student
May 7, 2025
173
People are getting more and more evil
The worst people get everything when in fact they should getting nothing but a brick in the mouth
 
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Namelesa

Namelesa

Global Mod · Trapped in this Suffering
Sep 21, 2024
1,892
I would say God is the person who tricked us into believing that, not the devil (if they existed tho)

People are so inconsistent with the way they treat us. Like am I being a burden by saying about it or not? Honestly shows they didn't love us at all cus they would helped us when we are alive. They just expect us to suffer for them so they don't to suffer from our absence, nor having to put any effort into helping us live less painfully.
 

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