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YourNeighbor

Arcanist
Jul 22, 2021
423
Just wanted to create a thread for terminally ill members (are there many here?), so that we can share our plans, etc. So much of this forum is dedicated to other users (nothing against anyone else, to be clear), it would be nice for the terminal to have a spot to discuss the unique situations we are in with respect to suicide and end of life planning.

About me: I don't have a strict prognosis, about 2 years is likely, with significant physical and mental deterioration before then. Want to avoid suffering and leaving family with memories of me as a disintegrating individual. Plan: tentative N, though haven't tried to obtain it yet. Maybe travel to death with dignity jurisdiction, but I want to go as much as possible on my own terms/schedule.

Not sure how I want to spend my remaining time either--so far, trying to work and keep things normal, but part of me wonders if I shouldn't move back with family while I still am somewhat functional.

Anyone here in a similar position? Have you plans to exit before your illness takes its toll? Have you taken steps to be prepared?
 
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sully

Experienced
Jul 27, 2021
231
Hi.
I´m not sure what I´m gonna do, my situation is very difficult. I am trying very hard to obtain N now. I have SN but I´m really not sure it works though.
You can PM me or give me your other contact so we can just talk.
 
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YourNeighbor

Arcanist
Jul 22, 2021
423
Hi.
I´m not sure what I´m gonna do, my situation is very difficult. I am trying very hard to obtain N now. I have SN but I´m really not sure it works though.
You can PM me or give me your other contact so we can just talk.
I don't really PM, but this thread should be a place where anyone who is terminal can discuss their situation freely. If you're looking for advice, ask away, there may be others here who can help.
 
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sully

Experienced
Jul 27, 2021
231
I don't really PM, but this thread should be a place where anyone who is terminal can discuss their situation freely. If you're looking for advice, ask away, there may be others here who can help.
Ok, no problem
Basically I share your idea of obtaining N and wait for the right moment, preferably have some nice time before