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Venting Struggling after being fired

body_snatcher

body_snatcher

green and lonely
Jan 23, 2023
46
I was fired yesterday without reason (90 day probationary period) and I'm having trouble not finding ways to hurt myself. I feel really betrayed and hurt, my coworkers were not nice to me. Any advice for how I can cope with this without self harming? I'm so stressed I'm already so tight on money and now I have nothing coming in. I'm kind of freaking out.
 
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vascomorrow

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Feb 11, 2026
95
body_snatcher said:
I was fired yesterday without reason (90 day probationary period) and I'm having trouble not finding ways to hurt myself. I feel really betrayed and hurt, my coworkers were not nice to me. Any advice for how I can cope with this without self harming? I'm so stressed I'm already so tight on money and now I have nothing coming in. I'm kind of freaking out.
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Ive been there so many times..

What was the job you got fired from? In my experience the job wasnt worth it to begin with. And being fired just lead me to do something better.
 
body_snatcher

body_snatcher

green and lonely
Jan 23, 2023
46
I was working in a middle school cafeteria, I agree I'm glad to be out of there. How did you deal with the in between period?
 
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vascomorrow

Member
Feb 11, 2026
95
body_snatcher said:
I was working in a middle school cafeteria, I agree I'm glad to be out of there. How did you deal with the in between period?
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I worked for temp agencies to get by, and sending out applications for other more serious work.

My biggest problem was failing at job interviews.


I was fired once and I didnt even know it. I went to work and they said "oh you quit yesterday". And I said "if I quit why did I show up today?". Anyways long story short, I filed claims against them to employment standards people and ended up winning around $900...
 
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dubstep_penguin

dubstep_penguin

NATURAL SELECTION
Dec 21, 2025
24
Well in the moment not to self-harm you can listen to some crazy music, im talking crazy experimental ambient bullshit, try to dissect it or something.

Or listen to TERRIBLE music... assault your eardrums. like, put yourself through that. lol, its a funny alternative to SH since it technically still counts. Like, if i made myself to listen to hobo johnson i think that would count as self harm...
 
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vascomorrow

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Feb 11, 2026
95
This is one of my SH scars. Is it worth it? No.
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