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freemefrompain

freemefrompain

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Aug 5, 2019
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Anyone know how to feel comfort and stability in life? I can't ever stay at a job, am terrible with money and in general just bad at "adulting". People around me think I'm just lazy, zero consideration to my mental health,shock.
 
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Sep 14, 2019
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Anyone know how to feel comfort and stability in life? I can't ever stay at a job, am terrible with money and in general just bad at "adulting". People around me think I'm just lazy, zero consideration to my mental health,shock.
I'd go to a therapist and talk about this particular problem with them.n
 
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Suilven

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Sep 19, 2019
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Comfort and stability, it's an elusive state of mind rather than an effect of life circumstances. Instability is part of life in our society. What I mean is once you can make peace with that it stops mattering. Easier said than done.

Some people just seem to cruise through it, but personally I stay awake at night thinking about every possibility.. a nightmare.

Meditation on breathing has helped me and lots of others, although for me it's very temporary. Maybe it has more effect with practice.
 

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