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CravingPeace

CravingPeace

It’s only a matter of time
Feb 19, 2025
338
Hello, this is my first post here. I ordered SN from DMC this week and he received my payment on Tuesday. The status update still says paid for but not shipped. I was wondering if you all could share experiences of how long after payment it took to ship from the seller's home country. Just nervous, thank you!
 
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tartvinegar

Student
Feb 14, 2025
152
He shipped pretty immediately for me, I'm also nervous about how long it's going to take.
 
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DOHARDTHINGS24

Warlock
Apr 30, 2024
700
Hello, this is my first post here. I ordered SN from DMC this week and he received my payment on Tuesday. The status update still says paid for but not shipped. I was wondering if you all could share experiences of how long after payment it took to ship from the seller's home country. Just nervous, thank you!
About 3 weeks to Australia. Once it's sent you can track the order on dmc website / aftership. And then when it shows up as received in your country on aftership, you can use the same tracking number on the postal service in your country. It took a lot longer than I was quoted, it sat at random ports giving me crazy anxiety, some people have had theirs stop randomly in the Netherlands I believe??? But I got it eventually & was so relieved. Good luck.
 
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CanIStopTryingNow

CanIStopTryingNow

Member
Oct 15, 2023
57
Do you get notification it was sent by WhatsApp? I paid for mine through AirBnB.
 
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areyousafe??

Arcanist
Nov 27, 2024
466
I recall my status update "paid but not shipped" stayed that way for 5 days...it felt like a long wait! I kept checking to see when it will get shipped. You should receive an email when it gets shipped.

I paid for it on 30th November and received it 4 weeks later. It might have taken longer due to the Christmas/New Year period. I'm from Australia.
 
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DOHARDTHINGS24

Warlock
Apr 30, 2024
700
Do you get notification it was sent by WhatsApp? I paid for mine through AirBnB.
I think it depends on how much communication you have via that method. I don't think they automatically send you that unless you've been asking for updates. I did. But their website has order tracking which links to aftership, that I described a bit upthread ⬆️
 
CanIStopTryingNow

CanIStopTryingNow

Member
Oct 15, 2023
57
The login credentials for the throw away email account aren't working and I don't know why. I am asking about my order now on WhatsApp.
 
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Permanoir

Permanoir

Student
Dec 29, 2024
123
I live in Norway and I placed an order and paid for it on 26th October (Saturday). The package got dispatched on 28th (Monday) and started shipping on 1st November (Friday). It arrived in Norway on 8th November and got it in my hands on 11th November. Hope that helps.
 
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CravingPeace

CravingPeace

It’s only a matter of time
Feb 19, 2025
338
I recall my status update "paid but not shipped" stayed that way for 5 days...it felt like a long wait! I kept checking to see when it will get shipped. You should receive an email when it gets shipped.

I paid for it on 30th November and received it 4 weeks later. It might have taken longer due to the Christmas/New Year period. I'm from Australia.
Interesting. He told me "it will literally be [on the way] today or tomorrow", yesterday. So I guess today? If not I'll be a little more skeptical.. hopefully I found the right site..
 
CravingPeace

CravingPeace

It’s only a matter of time
Feb 19, 2025
338
Ugh, it's nerve wracking. I don't want to be "that guy" and ask for updates from him so frequently, I wish he hadn't given me a timeline for when it'll leave his country. It is still saying "paid" since Tuesday.
 
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tartvinegar

Student
Feb 14, 2025
152
Just text him on whatap, he responds immediately
 
CravingPeace

CravingPeace

It’s only a matter of time
Feb 19, 2025
338
Just text him on whatap, he responds immediately
Just got shipment confirmation. I guess I didn't want to feel like I was pestering him. He's a really cool guy to talk to!
 
grapevoid

grapevoid

Mage
Jan 30, 2025
528
I paid for mine with air bnb, my package shipped the day of my "check out" which was 03/05 it left Ukraine yesterday to destination country
 
Permanoir

Permanoir

Student
Dec 29, 2024
123
I paid for mine with air bnb, my package shipped the day of my "check out" which was 03/05 it left Ukraine yesterday to destination country
I thought that you are on the road to recovery?
 
grapevoid

grapevoid

Mage
Jan 30, 2025
528
I thought that you are on the road to recovery?
Im in treatment, but had you read any of my messages you'd likely see I'm still suicidal and said the treatment has not helped my suicidal ideation at all. To which someone said I just wasn't patient enough. LOL
I'm still actively in an intensive outpatient program, and still will likely attempt again.
 
Permanoir

Permanoir

Student
Dec 29, 2024
123
Im in treatment, but had you read any of my messages you'd likely see I'm still suicidal and said the treatment has not helped my suicidal ideation at all. To which someone said I just wasn't patient enough. LOL
I'm still actively in an intensive outpatient program, and still will likely attempt again.
No, I read your posts and know that you attempted 12 weeks ago and are still "chronically suicidal" as you said. I had gotten the impression that you didn't want to attempt again and that it is difficult to recover.

I was just curious and I'm sorry if I came across as condescending.
 
grapevoid

grapevoid

Mage
Jan 30, 2025
528
No, I read your posts and know that you attempted 12 weeks ago and are still "chronically suicidal" as you said. I had gotten the impression that you didn't want to attempt again and that it is difficult to recover.

I was just curious and I'm sorry if I came across as condescending.
Eh, if I felt even a tiny bit of hope somewhere along my recovery journey that the suicidal ideation would cease or at least ease up, I would maybe be able to recover. But at this point in my journey, I'm tired and I either want to stop wanting to die or just be dead already. Sometimes I've questioned ordering the SN because I think having it available is likely a bad idea, on the flip side, I don't have much ambition to prevent myself from using it rn.
 
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