Should I wait for my sister to graduate before I ctb?

[sserafim]

I saw a thread about another user waiting for their sister to graduate before ctb. My sister graduates college in 2027, and we're not close. Do you think that I should wait for her to graduate before I ctb?

 

[CouldaHvBeenARock]

In my opinion,I think you should be selfish and focus on timing your ctb around when you are ready
and then you can consider things like graduation dates.

 

[ewlife]

I think you should only CTB when you are sure and feel ready. If wanting to see your sister graduate makes you hesitate, imo it means you should wait some more before making your decision.

 

[Deleted member 65988]

One thing I've learnt is that there is never a perfect/ideal time to ctb because while you're planning to ctb, the lives of others around you keep moving forward so I suppose you have to ask yourself what's more important to you here because 2027 is 2 years and 9 months from now, can you be honest enough with yourself to wait that long is the first question I'd ask myself and then work from there.

 

[Z-A]

Whenever you'll be ready. Also, whether it's gonna be before or after her graduation, it will be equally painful for your loved ones. Unfortunately we have to be selfish when it comes to CTB as we have no other choice. Don't blame yourself for nothing.

 

[sserafim]

One thing I've learnt is that there is never a perfect/ideal time to ctb because while you're planning to ctb, the lives of others around you keep moving forward so I suppose you have to ask yourself what's more important to you here because 2027 is 2 years and 9 months from now, can you be honest enough with yourself to wait that long is the first question I'd ask myself and then work from there.

It's only 2 years and 9 months away? Somehow I thought it was longer. I can't imagine living past 25 though. In the worst case, I guess I'll join the 27 club.

 

[LifeIsCrazyNemb]

I saw a thread about another user waiting for their sister to graduate before ctb. My sister graduates college in 2027, and we're not close. Do you think that I should wait for her to graduate before I ctb?

In case you decide to wait for your sister, what will be ur life plan for the next 3 years?

In case you decide to not wait, what will be the plan for your CTB? Date, method?

 

[sserafim]

In case you decide to wait for your sister, what will be ur life plan for the next 3 years?

In case you decide to not wait, what will be the plan for your CTB? Date, method?

I don't have a life plan for the next 3 years lol. I didn't even think that I would live to graduate college, so I didn't have a plan for my post-college life. I never thought that I would actually have to enter the real world. It's been almost 2 years since I graduated haha. The plan for ctb is still in the works.

 

[LifeIsCrazyNemb]

I don't have a life plan for the next 3 years lol. I didn't even think that I would live to graduate college, so I didn't have a plan for my post-college life. I never thought that I would actually have to enter the real world. It's been almost 2 years since I graduated haha. The plan for ctb is still in the works.

Unfortunatelly planning is required either to join in the real world or to scape by CTB.
No planning means walking aimless in this world and thats just like hell.

Good luck in your plan!

 

[sserafim]

Unfortunatelly planning is required either to join in the real world or to scape by CTB.
No planning means walking aimless in this world and thats just like hell.

Good luck in your plan!

I don't want to join the real world lol so I'll definitely escape by ctb

 

[Erick]

I don't want to join the real world lol so I'll definitely escape by ctb

If you are willing to wait until your sister graduate, it means you don't really want to CTB.

 

[sserafim]

If you are willing to wait until your sister graduate, it means you don't really want to CTB.

Tbh I'd rather ctb earlier. Waiting until she graduates is just a scenario

 

[walkingdead2023]

I saw a thread about another user waiting for their sister to graduate before ctb. My sister graduates college in 2027, and we're not close. Do you think that I should wait for her to graduate before I ctb?

That's up to you!

 

[_Gollum_]

It's only 2 years and 9 months away? Somehow I thought it was longer. I can't imagine living past 25 though. In the worst case, I guess I'll join the 27 club.

God that caught me off guard too. It's terrifying imagining living until 2027. I also don't want to make it past 25.

 

[Erick]

Tbh I'd rather ctb earlier. Waiting until she graduates is just a scenario

If you are considering waiting until then, you are not too desperate to CTB, so I think you should wait. Maybe your life gets better during this waiting period, and you change your mind about hating people and society hahaha.
What's your method to CTB if you don't mind me asking?

 

[theboy]

it's an arduous wait. if you have patience, go ahead.

 

[TransientEternal]

Do it when you are ready. Do not suffer unnecessarily.