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VargosMelon

Attempting to Live A Fulfilling Life
Feb 5, 2023
27
Do I have the right to post here?

It sounds silly. I already have posted here, but I've been feeling both embarrassed and like I do have that right. My issues aren't as bad as others, and my suffering is not as strong. It kinda feels like I don't belong here.
 
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Withered

Withered

Member
Apr 9, 2025
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You and I both know the answer to that question. Let's not fish around.
 
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locked*n*loaded

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Apr 15, 2022
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It's not like it's a contest here where the worst issues, or worse suffering, wins...........
 
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bankai

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Mar 16, 2025
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Yes I understand the feeling. The problems being faced by the posters vary. some have it tougher than others. still we're all in the same boat.
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
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A friend of my Mum's once picked up on me describing my problems as being 'silly'. She (rightly) said- if they are bothering you this much, then they are serious.

The fact that you've found your way to a forum discussing suicide suggests that, whatever it is that's troubling you- even if you can't quite put your finger on it- it's bad enough for you to be considering this. So- of course it's 'worthy' to talk about and be supported for. Unless the whole 'pull yourself together and stop making a fuss' tactic works on you, definitely express what's on your mind.

Most people are understanding too. Occassionally, there's a pain olympics but, most people will still be sympathetic to others who are struggling.
 
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VargosMelon

Attempting to Live A Fulfilling Life
Feb 5, 2023
27
You and I both know the answer to that question. Let's not fish around.
Yes I was fishing. Nevertheless, when I was posting it I was feeling some embarrassment, like I know I have a right to post here. Duh, but idk, do I belong? I was feeling, and still do feel a bit, not quite. So that's why this is here lol.
It's not like it's a contest here where the worst issues, or worse suffering, wins...........
Yeah, true. I guess, what trips me up is that others have it way way worse. Yet somehow can, navigate. Idk how to describe what I mean? I just feel embarrassed and well sometimes overdramatize, that I'm over here falling over simple, run of mill, life.
 
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