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goingoutinstyle

goingoutinstyle

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I really don't like the idea of my dead body defecating after I die, because it'll be messy and dirty and just feels embarrassing to be found that way, even though it's normal. Idk if this is a stupid question but is there any way to avoid it?? If I like elevate my pelvis from the floor when I ctb by laying on my stomach and putting something under my hips could gravity prevent it??
 
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ShatteredSerenity

ShatteredSerenity

I talk to God, but the sky is empty.
Nov 24, 2024
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It doesn't always happen right away, it can happen when you're being transported or back at the morgue. So CTB in a specific position would only help temporarily, if at all.

I'm not an expert on death poo, but I can think of a few options to consider:
  • Fasting might help, but on the flip side it can cause diarrhea.
  • An enema might help, but it would have to be a pretty hefty enema which would take a lot of effort and be uncomfortable.
  • If your timing to CTB was flexible, you could just wait until you take a shit regularly then CTB.
  • A butt plug could seal things up tightly, and there are even some specifically made for fecal incontinence. The size and shape is important or it will just shoot out when the shit puts pressure on it. Whether being found with a butt plug is more or less embarrassing than shitting yourself is a matter of personal preference. For some kinky people it could be a way of taking kink to the grave.
A middle ground approach could be to just eat light and try to not worry about it too much. The professionals who work with dead bodies are used to these things, so they'll have procedures to handle it safely.
 
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locked*n*loaded

locked*n*loaded

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Apr 15, 2022
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As you said, it's completely natural for it to occur. Perhaps you could wear some oversized plastic-type briefs to contain anything that might be expelled, some that have elastic around the leg area.
 
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ChefTesta

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Feb 12, 2025
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It doesn't always happen right away, it can happen when you're being transported or back at the morgue. So CTB in a specific position would only help temporarily, if at all.

I'm not an expert on death poo, but I can think of a few options to consider:
  • Fasting might help, but on the flip side it can cause diarrhea.
  • An enema might help, but it would have to be a pretty hefty enema which would take a lot of effort and be uncomfortable.
  • If your timing to CTB was flexible, you could just wait until you take a shit regularly then CTB.
  • A butt plug could seal things up tightly, and there are even some specifically made for fecal incontinence. The size and shape is important or it will just shoot out when the shit puts pressure on it. Whether being found with a butt plug is more or less embarrassing than shitting yourself is a matter of personal preference. For some kinky people it could be a way of taking kink to the grave.
A middle ground approach could be to just eat light and try to not worry about it too much. The professionals who work with dead bodies are used to these things, so they'll have procedures to handle it safely.
The real question is, who are experts on death poo? Seems like a very niche field of study
 
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TheHolySword

TheHolySword

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Nov 22, 2024
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I was a shitstain in life, may as well be one in death, too.
 
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RinneOfAragon

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Jan 2, 2025
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I really don't like the idea of my dead body defecating after I die, because it'll be messy and dirty and just feels embarrassing to be found that way, even though it's normal. Idk if this is a stupid question but is there any way to avoid it?? If I like elevate my pelvis from the floor when I ctb by laying on my stomach and putting something under my hips could gravity prevent it??
I don't know why this bothers me also. Obviously you can't feel embarrassed when you are dead but still the thought of it is embarrassing while living. For myself I was just going to cut down my consumption of food, fast in the run up and take laxatives or whatever and hopefully it won't be too bad when it does happen. Isn't it funny the things we worry about.
 
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zardofan

So very tired of trying
Feb 11, 2025
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My plan is to put those puppy pads underneath me. Doesn't stop the poop but might make it easier for them, might not have to dispose of the chair.
 
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Peter Skellern

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Jan 10, 2025
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Let's be honest, it won't be something the Paramedics or the Morgue isn't used to - many, MANY times. It's not something to get fixated on really.
 
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Worndown

Worndown

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Mar 21, 2019
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Go first. Maybe prepare with some laxative the day before.
 
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ThatStateOfMind

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Nov 13, 2021
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It bothers me too to think about that. However, it is natural and there's not much you can do to avoid it. It likely will occur but I've heard of some wearing a diaper while ctb. Now, that may be more or lots embarrassing depending on you, but I imagine there's various options, even if it's just containing the mess rather than stopping it.
 
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Kali_Yuga13

Kali_Yuga13

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Jul 11, 2024
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Fasting, enema, laxatives, adult diapers. I suspect body positioning wouldn't be a huge factor in preventing it for some reason but that's just my hunch and not science.
 
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Peter Skellern

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Fasting, enema, laxatives, adult diapers. I suspect body positioning wouldn't be a huge factor in preventing it for some reason but that's just my hunch and not science.
Or you could just chose to not CTB to make it much easier for those potential parties concerned. Problem solved lol.
 
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sfdwx

sfdwx

hanging
Jan 19, 2022
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Fasting, enema, laxatives, adult diapers. I suspect body positioning wouldn't be a huge factor in preventing it for some reason but that's just my hunch and not science.
I wonder if an adult diaper is enough
 
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SufferingInDenmark

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Feb 21, 2025
537
just fast... and then even if it does happen, it won't be enough to notice
 
ForeverCaHa

ForeverCaHa

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Feb 16, 2025
443
It's definitely something that worries me, but there's not much I can do to help. I'll be fasting due to SN, so hopefully that will have an effect. I'll maybe put some towels down? Like other people have said, it's not something the professionals dealing with the body won't have seen before.
 
ididnotconsent

ididnotconsent

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Mar 16, 2025
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Take a nice dump before hand would be my best guess. Can't poop if nothing is there.
 
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J&L383

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Jul 18, 2023
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It doesn't always happen right away, it can happen when you're being transported or back at the morgue. So CTB in a specific position would only help temporarily, if at all.

I'm not an expert on death poo, but I can think of a few options to consider:
  • Fasting might help, but on the flip side it can cause diarrhea.
  • An enema might help, but it would have to be a pretty hefty enema which would take a lot of effort and be uncomfortable.
  • If your timing to CTB was flexible, you could just wait until you take a shit regularly then CTB.
  • A butt plug could seal things up tightly, and there are even some specifically made for fecal incontinence. The size and shape is important or it will just shoot out when the shit puts pressure on it. Whether being found with a butt plug is more or less embarrassing than shitting yourself is a matter of personal preference. For some kinky people it could be a way of taking kink to the grave.
A middle ground approach could be to just eat light and try to not worry about it too much. The professionals who work with dead bodies are used to these things, so they'll have procedures to handle it safely.
I agree on these. I had to "😳🤔🤦" on the butt plug idea, but that does seem a possibility. Last resort an adult diaper to seal things up. Heck, we begin life in a diaper, why not end it that way?
 
sfdwx

sfdwx

hanging
Jan 19, 2022
42
I'm a woman, can I prevent peeing myself during suicide?
 
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bia ♡

bia ♡

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Jun 27, 2025
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I never thought about that before 💀💀 I'm laughing asf sorry
 
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alwaysalone

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May 14, 2025
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Food for thought. Normal bowel movements do not "empty out" everything. When you die every muscle in your body relaxes. This means intestines colon bowel etc... the only thing that might work is complete fasting for 7-10 days. BUT your body will still have waste from burning fat and muscle. So there will still be waste just not as much. It's practically impossible to have a living body not create waste.
 
bankai

bankai

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Mar 16, 2025
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The people who are going to come for you when you pass away are so used to this shit. Pun intended. So it doesn't matter. Go ahead and let loose.
 
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