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kasa

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Sep 18, 2025
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I'm sorry that this story is unrelated to the main topic here. It's just that I have nowhere else to talk about it.

One of my family members was taken into custody yesterday because of a money issue (debt). I knew there were problems, but I never imagined it would come to this. That person doesn't even feel like family to me anymore. Honestly, I don't feel sorry for them — it's their own karma.

Everyone else says we should visit, that maybe he has a plan and must be struggling the most, but I can't even stand the thought of seeing him. I don't know why something that only happens in dramas is happening to me. Still, I feel like if I don't visit him before his suspended sentence hearing, it might cause trouble when he comes back. And if I keep refusing to visit, the rest of my family probably won't react well either.
But if I actually saw him in a prison uniform, locked up like that, I think I might immediately carry out ctb that day. Yeah, it's a kind of escape from reality… Honestly, it still doesn't feel real. Who would have thought that someone in my family would become a criminal???

Come to think of it, even if someone told me to visit him, I probably never would… So what am i supposed to do here?
 
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Feb 14, 2024
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Hey, sorry to hear you're in this situation. I think you should do what you think is right. If you don't want to visit him, then don't. Don't let others force you into doing something you don't want to do.

In my opinion - you shouldn't make that your problem.
 
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metfan647

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Jun 12, 2025
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If seeing him would lead to impulsive cbt, don't go visit him.
 

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