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iichi

iichi

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Jun 27, 2025
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what are you planning to do with your pets when you ctb?
i have 3 cats and they are my world, they mean everything to me. i can't ctb without knowing they will have a safe home to go to when im gone. i really am scared to rehome them before my chosen date though as it i back out or fail i can't imagine being without them.
i was thinking of trying to set up a new home for them for after my date, and giving someone close to me their contact info etc so they can handle the regaining process for me. is this feasible?
what are you thinking about doing with your animals?
 
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Thalassa

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"i was thinking of trying to set up a new home for them for after my date, and giving someone close to me their contact info etc so they can handle the regaining process for me. is this feasible?"

Sorry, I'm not sure if I'm understanding what you're asking. Regaining process from where?
 
iichi

iichi

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Jun 27, 2025
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"i was thinking of trying to set up a new home for them for after my date, and giving someone close to me their contact info etc so they can handle the regaining process for me. is this feasible?"

Sorry, I'm not sure if I'm understanding what you're asking. Regaining process from where?
sorry, rehoming process **
 
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I'm leaving my house and money to them, whoever takes care of them gets the house when my pets pass on. I have an ordered list of potential caregivers.
 
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I'm only still alive bc of my dog. I'm more than ready to CTB, excited even, but I love her to where I don't trust anyone to care for her to my standards. She's old w lots of health issues, so as heartbreaking as it'll be, I'm willing that she passes soon so that I can finally leave too.

Depending on your method and how sure you feel you'll commit to your chosen date, maybe you could schedule the new caretaker to pick them up the day after. That way if you fail, you can cancel the pickup, but if you succeed, then the cats won't be left without care.

You could ask someone else to handle the rehoming process, but I'd be wary of them snitching on your intentions. Be super careful to pick someone understanding.
 
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xiaoxiongmao

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Jun 29, 2025
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I will leave my cats and dog with this sanctuary with their living trusts—enough for the rest of their life and the remaining to be donated to the sanctuary
I'm only still alive bc of my dog. I'm more than ready to CTB, excited even, but I love her to where I don't trust anyone to care for her to my standards. She's old w lots of health issues, so as heartbreaking as it'll be, I'm willing that she passes soon so that I can finally leave too.

Depending on your method and how sure you feel you'll commit to your chosen date, maybe you could schedule the new caretaker to pick them up the day after. That way if you fail, you can cancel the pickup, but if you succeed, then the cats won't be left without care.

You could ask someone else to handle the rehoming process, but I'd be wary of them snitching on your intentions. Be super careful to pick someone understanding.
Same. The cats love anyone really. But my dog is extremely attached to me and she's also trained to be my service dog. I plan to bring her to the sanctuary to make sure she likes it there.
 
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