people ultimately don't care

[Defenestration]

I put suicide memes on my networks, no one cares ...3.4 people ok but lots of people(95/100) I've helped in the past or with whom they don't care... That doesn't even surprise me...

There's no point crying at the funeral if you don't care about other people

 

[Dayrain]

they don't care...

Every age group btw.

 

[derpyderpins]

It's hard for people to admit their powerlessness. You're absolutely right, that people aren't actually there to help, especially if you aren't specifically asking them, like a bystander effect. I try to be forgiving about this, though, and rationalize that it's hard enough caring for and maintaining one life, I can't expect them to take care of me, too.

 

[Defenestration]

yes I know but I have always helped people, I have always been very kind and generous with people and then people forget me. all people are unanimous in saying that I have a pure soul that I have a heart of gold...

 

[Defenestration]

Kill me

 

[sadfemboy:(]

i'm afraid that's just how this shitty world is :\
No one will care more about you than yourself.

 

[Roseate]

It's hard for people to admit their powerlessness. You're absolutely right, that people aren't actually there to help, especially if you aren't specifically asking them, like a bystander effect. I try to be forgiving about this, though, and rationalize that it's hard enough caring for and maintaining one life, I can't expect them to take care of me, too.

I don't think they're begging for them to stop them or anything but at least do something, you know? They could just ask how they're feeling, ask what's going on and try to understand because once they die those same people will act like they would've done anything differently, they act like the signs weren't there and how much more clearer can the signs get than that.

 

[destinationlosangel]

Unfortunately this is the world that we live in. I think in general ppl have just become more and more uncaring

 

[passivethought121]

Many people are uncaring and/or pessimistic. They see suffering but choose not to act because they don't believe they will be sufficient help.

 

[katara]

keep in my pretending to be suicidal/depressed and posting "suicide memes" has become a trend. Most people who see those posts on your socials probably think you are just trying to be edgy and quirky, sense most people do that.

 

[dinosavr]

I think it's just a way to protect themselves. It's not easy to talk to a ticking bomb waiting for it to explode or not explode.
And I find it extremely sad that we're left alone with all this pain, just because no one is really ready to share it with us. I wish they knew how much we need it :( Cause basically it's not our fault. And it's not fair they just go on enjoying their lives and trying not to see us. Fuck the humanity.

 

[lost_ange1]

Most people do not understand how serious it is. Especially not with "memes" and stuff that is rather meant or seen as joke or not taken serious.

I am suicidal myself and i occasionally make suicide "jokes" too, which i know is very bad but sometimes i can just not help myself or i laugh about bad/dirty jokes. Of course i give the wrong impression to people who do not know me and do not know how serious some of the other things i say is, i am well aware of that. But i can also talk serious about my problems and show them that i am suicidal and that i wish to ctb.

If you want someone to take you serious talk to them personally, tell them about your struggles, your thoughts and all of it.
In the internet are way to many imposters who use mental health problems to their advantage or just don't take it serious as the words "depressed" and "mental sick" a thrown around too lightly nowadays.

 

[Death is my goal]

what do you want them to do?
also if you really desperate for their attention why not be upfront about it

 

[ijustwishtodie]

People only care after the person has died, not before. And even then, their care is only transient and will have to end eventually

 

[derpyderpins]

I don't think they're begging for them to stop them or anything but at least do something, you know? They could just ask how they're feeling, ask what's going on and try to understand because once they die those same people will act like they would've done anything differently, they act like the signs weren't there and how much more clearer can the signs get than that.

You're right, but I need a way to rationalize people's behavior if I can always be there for them but they don't reach out when I'm obviously struggling.

 

[Defenestration]

que veux-tu qu'ils fassent ?
aussi, si vous avez vraiment désespérément besoin de leur attention, pourquoi ne pas être franc à ce sujet

I'm not going to bore people by telling them about my life...but when you've provided lots of services in the past, just wait for a little message back or like well without talking about suicide memes, I'm not surprised it always only goes one way...I give (money or service), I listen, I get news...and conversely nothing, not back. it's always one way at least this reassures me that suicide is the right choice

People only care after the person has died, not before. And even then, their care is only transient and will have to end eventually

people are shocked at the moment but the next day they have forgotten

 

[divinemistress36]

If its a brain chemistry issue theres nothing anyone can do sadly we are alone

 

[Defenestration]

If its a brain chemistry issue theres nothing anyone can do sadly we are alone

Yes death IS solution

 

[divinemistress36]

Yes death IS solution

Yes!

 

[Defenestration]

Oui!

 

[Roseate]

You're right, but I need a way to rationalize people's behavior if I can always be there for them but they don't reach out when I'm obviously struggling.

They rarely ever reach out even when the signs are so clear in front of them. It's just life. No one actually cares. The sooner we learn that, the easier it gets.

 

[astr4]

people only Think they care. the second you inconvenience them or no longer have anything to offer them it's like a switch flips and you turn into a burden. replies get slower and slower, and any sense of friendship and connection is only a distant memory.