Discussion Parents are responsible for what happens to their kids

[fkyou]

Parents are responsible for what happens to their kids. If they doomed them with shit genes like ADHD and autism you don't have the right to have high expectations on your kid when they grow up. If they get bullied constantly in social settings and don't know how to defend themselves/they have a "weak personality" that's your problem too because you gave them shit genes (social anxiety autism panic disorder..) or didn't mentor them. When they grow up and feel like their life is meaningless and has no value it probably is and you have no right to tell them what's the right thing to feel when you aren't them. It just seems that parents have such misplaced authority power to judge how their kids turn out when they are the ones who determined the kid's quality of life from the start from genes to wealth to location of birth...so when a kid feels they failed to secure a financial future they are right and you are not there to teach them how/what to feel or shame them for not coping with this life.you can't really come up to me when I'm in the deepest level of misery to tell me I'm being irrational and that what I think is not true.

The funny thing is when they think you ruined their egoistical family imagine and call you a retard (for having a severe mental illness),well duh IAM a retard thanks to the genes you blessed me with, completely disregarding that their genes are the cause of this. Just a complete lack of understanding of mental illness.they believe they can play Russian roulette with you and still to turn out how they desire. If someone thinks they'd rather ctb than continue this life it's your fault yeah. We didn't want to say this but you wanted to so you get what you want/give. I know how to blame too.