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jnpx321

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Nov 25, 2020
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I've dated 4 women, but none of them wants to be my girlfriend, I feel very sad and disappointed.
I have a decent job. I just wonder, why attracting women is so difficult??
Sorry for the rant
 
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To find the one person that will stick by your side no matter what is like winning the lottery. Sadly these days everyone is already on to the next person or most of the times not interested in a deeper connection.
The only advice I can give is: keep your head up and keep trying, there might be the one still waiting for you.
 
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I wouldn't give up after four tries. Meeting the right people can be really hard and take time, but that doesn't mean it won't happen. It's better if a relationship isn't going to work out for it to end earlier than later, so dating and parting ways isn't a loss.
 
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If it helps, there's a distinct difference between attracting someone and connecting with them, and them simultaneously connecting with you.
 
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jnpx321

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To find the one person that will stick by your side no matter what is like winning the lottery. Sadly these days everyone is already on to the next person or most of the times not interested in a deeper connection.
The only advice I can give is: keep your head up and keep trying, there might be the one still waiting for you.
Thank you!
 
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4 women is too small of a sample size and they were willing to go on a date with you so that counts for something. Don't be discourage. It's not easy finding someone you can connect with. it's kinda like looking for employment. you may not find one despite going to dozens of interviews.
 
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