Discussion more sexually opeminded after giving up on life

[Stargazer100]

This may be a bit of an odd topic but I wonder if others experience this too

Having end of life plans I can kind of let go of making long term plans for my life. I used to only want to date someone who I felt confident with that there was a permanent future for us. But now I actually feel attracted to a lot more people, and my sexuality has also changed. Sex suddenly seems like something that just feels good and it doesn't have to be with someone who I can have a future with. I'm much more open minded about a lot of things, much less concerned about consequences and with that I'm also much more interested in it and in a much wider range of people.

At the same time it's also much harder to date someone because at times I don't have the energy to keep texting.

Just wondering if others also feel that way.

 

[Rayzieka]

it definitely does that

 

[xkonstantinexx]

This may be a bit of an odd topic but I wonder if others experience this too

Having end of life plans I can kind of let go of making long term plans for my life. I used to only want to date someone who I felt confident with that there was a permanent future for us. But now I actually feel attracted to a lot more people, and my sexuality has also changed. Sex suddenly seems like something that just feels good and it doesn't have to be with someone who I can have a future with. I'm much more open minded about a lot of things, much less concerned about consequences and with that I'm also much more interested in it and in a much wider range of people.

At the same time it's also much harder to date someone because at times I don't have the energy to keep texting.

Just wondering if others also feel that way.

It's the opposite for me. Ever since abandoning long term plans, I've lost interest in dating and sex completely.

 

[Stargazer100]

Interesting how some people lose interest and others get a wider interest.

 

[Bootleg Astolfo]

Become, a true man of culture.

 

[Victoria]

I relate to this. I've also thought seriously about selling sex because why not? Nothing matters now.

 

[Stargazer100]

I relate to this. I've also thought seriously about selling sex because why not? Nothing matters now.

But than what do you even need the money for :p


I also think of sex as making someone else happy as sort of an act of service. Like caring for someone and satisfying their curiosity. Not sure of anyone relates to that.

 

[LONE WOLF.]

Personally I'm not interested in a full on relationship but l have to admit l'd like to eat some Pussy b4 l go into that long goodnight!

 

[mpnf]

But than what do you even need the money for :p


I also think of sex as making someone else happy as sort of an act of service. Like caring for someone and satisfying their curiosity. Not sure of anyone relates to that.

I do. Basically it's why I'm willing to give my intimates part to a guy that don't love me or I don't love back cause I feel somehow attached to him but at the same time I despise him. And as is my last report of having someone " I hate but I like" ....I do it because of that . We fight over text a lot and have seen each other's two times only but it's all pretty strange to be honest. Also at the beginning we thought we were going to be something else but we're not feeling it anymore. Je doesn't stop telling me he's not into me for a relationship, only wants me for my holes...literally.

And on top of everything I don't enjoy sex cause feel absolutely nothing but pain when I get penetrated.

My first attempt at love and still don't know why I "like him" but I know why I hate him.

 

[Victoria]

But than what do you even need the money for :p


I also think of sex as making someone else happy as sort of an act of service. Like caring for someone and satisfying their curiosity. Not sure of anyone relates to that.

I'd probably give the money to an animal charity or something tbh.

 

[whywere]

One is here and gone in a flash. The 1 over riding aspect is that it is 100% mutual in nature, no ifs ands or buts. Beyond that go for it! I am 65 and will NEVER tell about my younger years but, OH MY! Walter