Venting Love

[gnarly]

It's honestly the one thing I crave for. It's what I lack in my life. But true love is almost impossible to find nowadays. And it's all about looks now so I don't even have much of a chance. I really just want that one people I can count on every day. No matter what. I just hate being alone ig. I don't like sitting alone in silence playing video games by myself. "Where's my true love" I ask myself. I don't know. I fear that if i some how grow old that'll be the same sentence I'll say when I'm older. Why am I still alone? "I don't know". No one just ever wants to be with me. Let alone near me. I'm that "ew you're dating that guy" Kind of guy. I'm pretty childish and unserious. You'd think some girl would fall in love with me by now but nope. Still waiting. Waiting for something that doesn't even exist. At least I don't think she's out there. I truly believe I'm alone in this world with no chance of love.

 

[amerie]

i hope my reply is helpful, but some advice for you would be to develop some hobbies and work on charisma. While attractive people do have privledge people won't want to date someone who is attractive but has no substance to their personality or hobbies. In your post you described playing video games all day, I feel like if you want a relationship you should have hobbies and defining personality traits that make people want to date you. Best of luck.

 

[MyTimeIsUp]

I hope you don't think I'm rude by saying this, but there isn't people out there that don't like those that don't take *anything* seriously. You can be a joker, but you must be able to take some things seriously, or you'll never take a relationship seriously, and there are times when you do need to do that. Especially acting childish. Perhaps that's the real reason? Women don't want a manchild.

Looks are overrated, but in my opinion, everyone is attractive in their own way. Looks will disappear as you age.

If you really want to find someone, you need to work on things a bit, in order to attract a woman you want to be with. Women love a sense of humour, you can laugh a woman into bed (really), but to maintain that you need more than humour. And definitely don't be *too* laid back, because it gives the impression you don't care.

I also agree with what @nattys5thtoenail said.

Best of luck