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Leonard_Bangley39

Too pathetic to even catch the bus
Nov 6, 2025
111
I know that the specifics vary between states and countries, but overall is there a limit for how long a person is committed? Could a person be kept indefinitely if they dont lie and keep telling the doctors that they will ctb as soon as they're let go everytime they're evaluated? Or after a certain point do they just stop caring and let you go? Or do they transfer you somewhere else?
 
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Douggy82

Experienced
Nov 4, 2024
273
I know that the specifics vary between states and countries, but overall is there a limit for how long a person is committed? Could a person be kept indefinitely if they dont lie and keep telling the doctors that they will ctb as soon as they're let go everytime they're evaluated? Or after a certain point do they just stop caring and let you go? Or do they transfer you somewhere else?
Like you said, depends on the location. People have tried to stay in a facility by repeatedly telling staff they were suicidal. Eventually, they kick them out. Mental health services are pretty overwhelmed in most places. If there's some other deep mental illness, I think they can commit you to a long-term facility. Mental health facilities I'm sure are better than prison or being homeless. Staff knows this. I believe that as soon as the short-term emergency is over, they boot you out the door to make way for the next person. I can't imagine how overwhelmed psychiatric facilities are in big cities like Chicago or NY.
 
Dejected 55

Dejected 55

Visionary
May 7, 2025
2,647
Your mileage may vary.

I was involuntarily in a facility after someone reported my attempt several weeks ago. I told the doctor there why I had come to that point. Every day they asked me how depressed I was, and I told them 9/10... Every day they asked if I was going to harm myself, and every day I said not while I was there, but once I got out I was probably going to start looking into a new method since mine had failed.

They kept me for two weeks.

I was discharged, saw a follow-up therapist the next day... during that appointment, they called police to drive me back to the facility, and I was there for another 5 days. Lather, rinse repeat. When I went back, the doctor pretty much said "we already talked so I'm not going to keep you here long."

They had nothing for me on their checklist procedure, so they kicked me loose again.

I was told when I initially went in 5-7 days... but they kept me for 14, and at least one other person while I was there had been kept for 16, so we weren't sure if there was a limit. My second time was just 5 days.

Someone had voluntarily checked themself in while I was there, and they were frustrated at the care (or lack thereof) they received, but they were stuck there for 3 days... but after day 3 they were able to check themself out since they were there voluntarily.