I met a new woman on a dating app - let's see how it develops

[noname223]

I downloaded a new dating app. Actually, I am now using 4 dating apps.

I think I am pretty good at texting. Women just have to give me a chance.

I had two matches on the new app. And with the second match I am texting now the whole day. We have exchanged probably 250-300 messages thus far for today. I hope she does not have borderline like the 3-4 last women I dated. But I don't get vibes for that thus far. We talked a lot about TV series and books. She seems to like Fifty Shades of Grey I don't know whether that's a foreshadowing. Lol. She is uncertain whether she wants kids. There is one issue though. The distance is not that large but she lives in a foreign country (1,5 hours away from me). Travelling to her is pretty expensive though (60 bucks). And we both don't have that much money. My therapist will see the distance pretty critical.

Tomorrow I will meet my (former?) crush again probably. I will likely announce that I am not attending courses anymore which is embarrassing for me.

When I am texting so much with women I am less suicidal and less present on SaSu. I almost became paranoid though. And explaining women psychosis can be pretty tricky and painful for me. I need to get enough sleep.

 

[Hollowman]

"women just have to give me a chance" Why?

 

[noname223]

"women just have to give me a chance" Why?

I meant by that on dating apps it is pretty difficult to get a match/like. And many men are not serious/act like assholes on them. I think when I text a woman for some hours she will pretty early realize I am not an asshole and I do mean it serious.

 

[bankai]

Good,that's nice.the dating scene is too much for Me.it's a major commitment.Me personally, I have too many things I feel I need to work on myself before I can involve someone else. If I can't be happy on my own, then I certainly can't be happy with anyone else. Yeah.

 

[noname223]

I think the contact is dead. She contributed barely anything to the conversation anyway. I kept the contact alive from the beginning. Why do I meet so strange women in online Dating in the first place? Her social media presence was slightly awkward... and really weird... I don't know what to think of it. I don't want to be mean. But I think it would be better for her to delete everything. But I won't tell her that. Her dream is to become a star. And tbh I think she does not have the talent. The Videos are sort of cringe.

At the same time it reminded me of myself. I try so hard and so desperate to sound like an intellectual even though I don't have the sauce in me. However, I am better at deceiving people. At least average people into thinking I was really smart
Intellectuals would laugh at me.

 

[EmptyBottle]

Tbh, even knowing more about coding than the average user (but less than some cool coders), it's ok to not know XYZ, info can be learnt, the more important thing for me would be wanting to know XYZ when I don't (that depends on whether it is interesting enough to learn.