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De4dX3nd

De4dX3nd

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Jan 14, 2025
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Hey guys, as you can see by the title, I'm stuck in a dilemma. One of my friends has been keeping me company ever since I was cut off from my best friend. I vented to him, and I'm certain that I won't ever see him again. But my friend said that I will see him again. He's aware it sounds derivative, but he said he knows it's not and I just gotta give it time. I want to believe him, but I keep getting that sinking feeling everything can go wrong. What the fuck am I suppose to do..
 
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I'm sorry your friend abandoned you. That hurts. Allow yourself to grieve during this time. Accept that things are constantly changing. Perhaps they'll cross your path yet again, but maybe they won't. It's hard to not get attached, but attachment only begets pain. You have to let things go, but know the presence they had will be indelible and be grateful you had good times. The loss may hurt but maybe the good you had will outweigh it. Are you better for having known them? If so, be grateful for that. Impermanence is real, and grief and loss is an inevitable part of life. People come and go. Focus on the good things you gained from experiences you've lost, and on all the other people and experiences you can gain in the future rather than what you have and can lose.

If it's meant to be, it will be, baby just let it be.
 
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