How long are you waiting

[jakethesnake]

Have you set a date

 

[Forveleth]

No. I do not set a date as that increases SI. I wake up and decide that that day will be my last.

 

[_wishforwings]

I don't have an exact date, but sometime within the next three or four weeks. Have a wedding this weekend i'm attending that I wanted to get out of the way first, although I wish I was gone already..

 

[xterii]

no set date, just a deadline of my birthday. hoping it works this time

 

[theDunce]

Yeah, have not set a date either. I also think it can increase my stress level and SI as mentioned by setting a date, or it has for me. I am hoping I can just do it one day soon so I guess I am waiting for it to feel right, although I am becoming less certain that will happen so I may have to force the moment.

 

[FailureCycle]

I'm planning for my birthday in a few months. I need the time to take care of some things and see if my life improves at all. In past attempts I've found that a lack of a plan actually makes me hesitate, so we'll see how this goes.

 

[socksnsandles]

too long

 

[Quietist]

It's always vague: "I'll do it before my 40th birthday" or "I'll do it before Christmas/over the Winter".

Once upon a time it was, "If I'm still in this same situation a year from now I'm going to do it" and that was over a decade ago.

I guess it'll just have to be impulsive.

 

[StryngerX]

I dont have a exactly date, but i plan it to be in about 18 months to 2 years from now. Should be enough time to get everything i planned on track.

 

[walliwalli]

yes. hotel booked as well. it's in about two weeks.

 

[TheTwelthRootOfTwo]

No. I do not set a date as that increases SI. I wake up and decide that that day will be my last.

This! Every time I have set a future date, I get such anxiety. Instead, I've decided I'll just do it when I work up the nerve. Or not. It is what it is, I guess.

 

[PurpleMorality]

Nope. I don't have everything I need, and I haven't fully committed. I'm not sure if it would be better to have things fully planned out and set a date and time, or to wait for impulse to set in. But either way, I don't have what I actually need, so it's moot at this point.

 

[OnMyLast Legs]

For me, it's always tomorrow.

 

[StoneCactus]

I'm gathering things for partial hanging and night-night and planning on attempting on April 3. I have a three day weekend so if I screw up and chicken out I have a few days for any ligature marks to fade. Unfortunately full suspension isn't an option since I'm 6'5" and the tallest thing I can find is a pull-up bar that's seven feet tall.

 

[Liebestod]

Whenever I stop being a coward.

 

[WiltedDreams]

I do not necessarily have a set date, although I do know that I want to ctb in 2-3 years minimum. Before turning 30 is my goal though.

 

[singingcrow]

i don't have a date but the end feels soon. i feel so much sadness in my heart everyday

 

[Kamaainakupua]

For me, it's always tomorrow.

Just, "later". I get enough pressure in my life that I don't need to make it worse with a self-imposed 'deadline' (pun fully intended).

 

[OnMyLast Legs]

Just, "later". I get enough pressure in my life that I don't need to make it worse with a self-imposed 'deadline' (pun fully intended).

My life is ruined and I'm still so scared of the act. You think ending your life is a get out of jail free card, but it's actually the most terrifying thing there is. Now what

 

[vyvanceandvodka]

tbh i'm giving it till i'm 27. if i'm not better in 2 years after a medication change, i gotta go lol

 

[Kamaainakupua]

My life is ruined and I'm still so scared of the act. You think ending your life is a get out of jail free card, but it's actually the most terrifying thing there is. Now what

You're in the right place. Method, timing, etc. all can be worked out so you get some relief, maybe even find peace.
My 'later' is because all that hasn't been worked out yet, which is why I'm here at SaSu, sharing about my failures, and what keeps me hopeful. Keep searching, and you can find peace, here, as well as all the above.

 

[Passenger4224]

I was gonna wait another month, but it will probably be sooner as I feel ready

 

[OnMyLast Legs]

You're in the right place. Method, timing, etc. all can be worked out so you get some relief, maybe even find peace.
My 'later' is because all that hasn't been worked out yet, which is why I'm here at SaSu, sharing about my failures, and what keeps me hopeful. Keep searching, and you can find peace, here, as well as all the above.

The problem is that my motivation and brainpower have been in steep decline. I'm not gonna orchestrate CO or inert gas or even buy a gun. It's all riding on hanging, which I would do sober and which hurts.