How do I deal with being ignored when I have bpd :/

[bl33ding_heart]

No matter how I phrase this post it makes people in my life that ignore me look terribly evil. And I don't wanna be told that their shitty people and I should just leave them cus I know at the end of the day, no matter what. I can't. I don't see a point in giving context, but how do I deal with getting ignored? I physically can't deal with it and I split over and over and harm myself repeatedly. I'm tired of having to be hurt due to other people's ignorance. I genuinely have no idea how to go about this.

 

[Shadows From Hell]

I'm used to being ignored, and for some odd reason, I rather enjoy it. I hate when people bother me(not on SaSu, just everyday people I have to deal with).

Some people take being ignored harder than others. Just don't beat yourself up over it, because it probably won't change their perspective of ignoring you.

You can try to interact more with them and see if it changes. I doubt you will get an honest answer if you ask why you are constantly ignored.

 

[trying ungracefully]

Do you like reading? I know distractions don't work sometimes but with me recently reading has been helping me because I get engrossed in the characters life instead of my own.

 

[soledad.virgen]

i always take it out on everyone else by cutting off people who would never be my fp, but lately i try to put that anxiety and anger into working out. its not perfect but it helps a tiny bit