• ⚠️ UK Access Block Notice: Beginning July 1, 2025, this site will no longer be accessible from the United Kingdom. This is a voluntary decision made by the site's administrators. We were not forced or ordered to implement this block.

wildflowers1996

wildflowers1996

Mage
Oct 14, 2023
562
and just found it completely useless?
Or am I at fault? Did I just not try hard enough? Was I closed minded?

I've had CBT/ERP for BDD and I would just come out of each session crying
I feel like perhaps it's my fault and maybe I'm someone a therapist would say "isn't ready to do the work" maybe I didn't try hard enough with homework etc I don't know but it just made me feel awful
 
  • Like
Reactions: sserafim
AllCatsAreGrey

AllCatsAreGrey

they/he
Sep 27, 2023
280
I've done some CBT. It didn't fit well with me. I get value out of small applications, but as a base modality not my jam. It often feels like I'm gaslighting or brainwashing myself.

There are tons of modalities, so I wouldn't feel bad if it doesn't fit for you at this time.
 
  • Like
Reactions: sserafim and thewalkingdread
sserafim

sserafim

they say it's darkest of all before the dawn
Sep 13, 2023
9,012
and just found it completely useless?
Or am I at fault? Did I just not try hard enough? Was I closed minded?

I've had CBT/ERP for BDD and I would just come out of each session crying
I feel like perhaps it's my fault and maybe I'm someone a therapist would say "isn't ready to do the work" maybe I didn't try hard enough with homework etc I don't know but it just made me feel awful
Yeah I've had CBT before but it didn't work. I heard an interesting theory that CBT doesn't work on people on the spectrum. Like @AllCatsAreGrey said, it felt like I was just gaslighting and brainwashing myself.
 
Last edited:
  • Like
Reactions: AllCatsAreGrey
DEATH IS FREEDOM

DEATH IS FREEDOM

Death is the solution to unsolvable problems.
Sep 13, 2023
606
The word CBT does not even exist!
 

Similar threads

jatty
Replies
1
Views
116
Recovery
timf
T
grapefruit04
Replies
1
Views
68
Suicide Discussion
Greasyhair
G
emilyprentiss
Replies
1
Views
72
Suicide Discussion
bcarroll1
B
P
Replies
9
Views
271
Suicide Discussion
FoxSauce
FoxSauce
Lone_Gray_Wolf
Replies
0
Views
121
Suicide Discussion
Lone_Gray_Wolf
Lone_Gray_Wolf