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martyrdom

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Nov 3, 2025
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I found a post that I'm reasonably certain was made by a family member asking for help about what to do with me. Such a strange feeling, and it contains a lot of extremely specific and graphic details I wish hadn't been made public, but thankfully not that many people seem to have seen it and it's anonymous. I don't know how much I actually care though, it's just surreal. I'll probably ask them to delete it. It's crazy to see how people talk about you when they think you won't ever see it. It's also sad to see how much worry I've caused, but I don't care much about that either. It's disconcerting to know random people who don't know me at all were so concerned about me. I don't know why it distresses me.
 
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Apr 15, 2022
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Can you respond to the post anonymously and tell the poster that it's in bad form, that everyone has the right to autonomy, and they should just mind their own business and if they did, the world would be a much better place?
 
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martyrdom

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Nov 3, 2025
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Can you respond to the post anonymously and tell the poster that it's in bad form, that everyone has the right to autonomy, and they should just mind their own business and if they did, the world would be a much better place?
If it's really by this family member (which I'm very sure it is), I'll just ask them in person to take it down and delete everything. No point in arguing anonymously about it, especially when it's about me. It's also a very pro-life site (as all sites except this one are), so I'd get bombarded with vitriol and I don't have the energy for that at all. But it would be very ironic and kind of funny to get vitriolic responses by the same people who are worrying about me in the post, without realizing who they're talking to.
 
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But it would be very ironic and kind of funny to get vitriolic responses by the same people who are worrying about me in the post, without realizing who they're talking to.
Yeah it would.
 

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