• Hey Guest,

    We wanted to share a quick update with the community.

    Our public expense ledger is now live, allowing anyone to see how donations are used to support the ongoing operation of the site.

    👉 View the ledger here

    Over the past year, increased regulatory pressure in multiple regions like UK OFCOM and Australia's eSafety has led to higher operational costs, including infrastructure, security, and the need to work with more specialized service providers to keep the site online and stable.

    If you value the community and would like to help support its continued operation, donations are greatly appreciated. If you wish to donate via Bank Transfer or other options, please open a ticket.

    Donate via cryptocurrency:

    Bitcoin (BTC):
    Ethereum (ETH):
    Monero (XMR):
Pipps

Pipps

Member
Nov 23, 2025
10
Struggling and needing help
Going to be 64 next month and life is worse than ever. Having trouble coping.
 
Last edited:
  • Hugs
  • Aww..
  • Love
Reactions: yume_, darksouls, Gangrel and 5 others
U. A.

U. A.

"Ultra Based Gigachad"
Aug 8, 2022
2,437
Hey, you can't use it yet I don't think as you need to make some more posts, but there's a chatroom section of the site and one of the rooms is 40+. Most people here are in their 20s or younger so that might be more your scene. There will be a chat bubble in the upper right corner of the window when you can use it.

Until then there's a normal thread for 30+ here:
 
  • Informative
  • Hugs
Reactions: Pipps, darksouls and gunmetalblue
T

timf

Enlightened
Mar 26, 2020
1,600
I am 75 and relate to the line from the first Star Wars movie when Hans Solo said, "I have been from one end of the galaxy to the other and have seen a lot of strange things".

As physical systems begin to fail, one finds a more limited range of physical activities. The prospect of what happens after death becomes a subject of growing interest. I find comfort in my Christian faith, but it was a long time cultivating that because there is so much one has to sift through to find that which is useful.

It can be more difficult without family or friends. However, there are organizations that can provide a sort of community of support. My sister goes to a swimming pool once a week that has a time for elderly people and has friends there.
 
  • Hugs
  • Love
Reactions: Pipps, darksouls and Gangrel
Pipps

Pipps

Member
Nov 23, 2025
10
Struggling and needing help
Going to be 64 next month and life is worse than ever. Having trouble coping.
Still here. Not sure where I go from "here"though.
 
  • Hugs
Reactions: Redacted24

Similar threads

D
Replies
8
Views
247
Recovery
pelicanportal
pelicanportal
H
Replies
6
Views
106
Recovery
fuzzypeach
fuzzypeach
ceelobling
Replies
6
Views
412
Recovery
boyafraid
boyafraid
trying ungracefully
Replies
10
Views
449
Recovery
fujikofujiko
F
heatnormal
Replies
1
Views
215
Recovery
timf
T