Help Advice to help those left behind

[xaninos]

This friday is set to be my last day.
Does anyone have stuff I can give to my current gf and my sister ?
They both know what is happening my sister is taking it well, and my gf is constantly in tears but understands why I've chosen this and is respecting it.
I just would like if there's any kind of help group or at least something I can leave them with so they have a place to start if they decide they want it.

 

[UnrulyNightmare]

Sorry for your pain! Wishing you peace

I wouldn't know for sure. I could only guess that having you around for a few more days means most to them?

Maybe you could find/set up counseling/help/therapy session depending on how available it it? And depending on your country, there are help lines? Or gp first and they can arrange grief counselling? I think it would really depend on the country and what's available and affordable?

Or write them something sweet they can hold onto when you're gone?

 

[vanillamilkshakes]

I, too, am sorry for your pain.

Here are a few ideas off the top of my head: leaving them some notes, letters. Maybe even a video or two of you talking personally towards them for them to look back to and still feel close to you?

And like @UnrulyNightmare said, simply spend your last few days with them.

 

[Jisatsu]

I'm also planning to leave on Friday... I plan to leave a box of things ... separating items I want to give to different people including notes,art,stuffed animals and jewelry .