My relationship ended at 4-6 am in parking lots with a complete blowout fight. They threw all the stuff out of my car and destroyed it, which I was able to document. They were fucking with me while I was driving and I had to pull over. I finally had to pull the "Mom please come pick me up I need you" call. Stuff happened and now we're done for good. I feel like I'm fucking dying with each breath I take but I feel so free. I was so stressed about moving in my previous thread, but now that I only have myself to worry about getting there, I have way more options. The only thing that is absolutely killing me right now about the relationship ending is that they took their pets with them. They were MY babies too, as I've been with them since birth. I'm real hurt over that. I have a cat now but I know he misses the others already. Thanks for listening.
not-2-b-the-answer
Archangel
- Mar 23, 2018
- 10,792
lita-lassi
let me spell it out for you: go to hell
- Sep 25, 2023
- 587
good job getting away 
im so sorry they took the babies away, but it isnt worth it to stay with someone horrible for them, sadly. its going to hurt for a long while, youre going to question if you made the right call, theyre going to either be horrible and try to turn others against you or pretend to not be horrible and beg forgiveness. fuck them. cut them off entirely unless you have a legal obligation to remain in brief contact over, have someone else manage that and once that obligation is done, sever. dont let em continue benefiting from your misery. i know this all might sound harsh or whatever but been there, done that, it really sucks, seriously fuck them though. welcome to your new stronger, smarter era
im so sorry they took the babies away, but it isnt worth it to stay with someone horrible for them, sadly. its going to hurt for a long while, youre going to question if you made the right call, theyre going to either be horrible and try to turn others against you or pretend to not be horrible and beg forgiveness. fuck them. cut them off entirely unless you have a legal obligation to remain in brief contact over, have someone else manage that and once that obligation is done, sever. dont let em continue benefiting from your misery. i know this all might sound harsh or whatever but been there, done that, it really sucks, seriously fuck them though. welcome to your new stronger, smarter era 
waterworks
in the luminous darkness
- Jan 31, 2024
- 104
That's great that youre feeling free, and things are changing for the better. I really wish you best going forward. I understand you miss your babies but not much to do, I'd like to think they love you enough to want you to have a good life. Pets are very perceptive of things and I'm sure they knew a lot.
